If you remain active, Church service is very demanding of our lives в not a Sunday thing. Hi, like others I've read a lot of the posts but still have a few questions. I grew up believing that when, where, and by what authority I was married were equally important to whom I married. I am afraid of what these years ahead could mean to our family; make it or break it. I had many extremely hurtful things said to me, along with an intervention hosted by my married-in-the-temple-and-divorced grandmother.
My husband and I have been together since we were year-olds at university trying to figure out where we stood with the faiths we had grown up in. I wish you the best. Doctor's often set their priorities as: When I give my husband the "busy as hell" attitude he gets worried about our relationship.
Best wishes to those struggling with these big, life-altering decisions. Forget what anyone else says or expects of you. With that same attitude they will rise up on the other side of the veil. I went to BYU. Just trying to make it through the 3 week stretch of hour days of him at work Ok so I'm engaged to a doctor to be and let me tell y'all something, you might judge me or whatever but when things get hard I go out with my single friends and bring home all the numbers I received to show him, - he then has to choose between me or his case. Maybe it won't be a big deal. I am very independent and have my own life my own career and do not need my partner to be with me all the time. In other words, eternal marriage really is worth it, I think. Well guess wat my engagement got cancelled. She was expecting me to break up with her, like all previous guys she's been into have done.
Oh, yeah, and this girl belongs to a verifiable cult. To find another job, a more family oriented one, move to another more financially friendly state we are in California and have a fresh start. Some other times I feel alone in my marriage. My number one question is about family - I want him to be able to be around for kids when that time comesso how realistic is it to expect him to be there for their sporting games or whatever they're doing. First and most importantly, I see major trust issues in your future if you both think the other is brainwashed.